Duty vs. Delight

Posted on October 7, 2022 by Elizabeth Welte in Victory Call

I had read a book gifted to me by Dr. Bill Welte, “Soul Keeping” by John Ortberg. I have found some very profound ideas – statements that challenged and refreshed me – and I want to pass them along for your edification.

In a conversation with Dallas Willard, Ortberg recounts Dallas making this statement: “People in churches – including pastors – have been crushed with guilt over their failure at having a regular quiet time or daily devotions. And then, even when they do, they find it does not actually lead to a healthy soul…”(i)  I wanted to jump up and shout “YES, YES!!”  Me included.

I wish I could say that I have been in my Bible every single day since I came to Christ 30+ years ago.
I can’t.

I wish I could say I never chose other things over spending time with Jesus.
I can’t.

I wish I could say that I have never “done devotions” simply because I felt guilty if I didn’t.
I can’t.

Guilt and shame are poor reasons to have a regular quite time or daily devotions.  But, unfortunately, I have seen it over and over and over again.  Perhaps unintentionally other people, well- meaning friends, good intentioned church people, make us feel guilty for not being in the Word.  Sometimes it is simply by sharing how devoted they are to their quiet time or the hour they spent in prayer.  Comparison is a poor reason to have a regular quiet time or daily devotions.

At the risk of being guilty of doing the very same thing, I want to share this thought:

As long as our focus is on activity (devotions) rather than being with Someone we love, Jesus Christ, it will be a duty to fulfill rather than a delight to anticipate. I am speaking to myself more that anyone.  I need to heed my own counsel.  I hope this helps you along the way.


Written by Diane Hunt: Diane Hunt serves on the board of America’s Keswick and is the Executive Director & CEO of Changed Choices, a Christian non-profit in North Carolina. She is also a biblical counselor and women’s event speaker. For more information about having Diane speak at your next event please contact her at dhunt@americaskeswick.org.

Think About This: “God wouldn’t have allowed it unless He has a purpose. Don’t just go through it – grow through it.” – Author Unknown

The Daily Bible Reading: Isaiah 37-38; Philippians 3 You can download our 2022 Daily Bible Reading Plan by clicking here. 

This Week’s Verse to Memorize: “Now, therefore, you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, 20 having been built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ Himself being the chief cornerstone,…” –Ephesians 2:19-20

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